TEEN Mother star Ashley Jones confession on Household Reunion that she was afraid to divorce Bar Smith and wind up “like unhappy Kim Kardashian.”
Ashley and Bar secretly wed forward of the MTV reunion present.
Throughout the newest episode of Teen Mother Household Reunion, Ashley opened as much as Leah Messer concerning the standing of her strained marriage to Bar.
The pair had been chatting about Leah’s new romance when the West Virginia native requested: “So what are you and Bar gonna do after this?”
Ashley responded unsure: “I do not know. Clearly we’re gonna return to the identical home, however I feel possibly, like, remedy.”
She elaborated in a confessional, saying: “Proper now, my relationship with Bar is simply at an area the place it want some TLC and if it would not get that, it may crumble.”
Ashley went on to inform Leah: “I do not need to be like Kim Kardashian and be like ‘I really feel like a loser’, like, I received married and divorced in 72 f**king hours.
“Not likely, I have been married a month, however I do not need to be married and divorced in the identical 12 months.”
Ashley stated in an interview: “I actually need Bar and I to sit down down with Coach B as a result of I simply need us to work on our communication.
“I do not need to soar to divorce and make it ultimate after I really feel like there’s nonetheless hope.”
CHATTING WITH THE DOC
The duo received their likelihood to talk with Dr. Bryant later within the episode.
Bar joked: “I really feel like that is the recent seat.”
Instantly, Dr. Bryant requested the duo: “What’s our relationship standing.”
Ashley answered: “We do not know,” whereas Bar stated, “We’re married however…” and trailed off.
The Teen Mother star went on: “I really feel like we’re simply in a awkward state. Like, clearly we’re married, however to me it would not really feel like what I assumed a wedding would really feel like.”
She added: “I do not know if I used to be anticipating an excessive amount of however I really feel like earlier than we received married it appeared like every thing was advantageous after which as quickly as we signed the papers and received married I simply really feel prefer it was extra severe.”
Requested what led to their rift, Ashley stated: “I needn’t hear anymore good jobs. I would like to have the ability to say, look what I am doing but in addition my husband is doing X, Y, and Z.”
Bar confessed: “I want to realize extra for myself. Every thing that I’ve began to do I am enthusiastic about, I am captivated with, I at all times see the larger image to it however I at all times discover a motive to distract myself from it.”
The pair then moved on, revisiting an earlier remark Ashley made about having “daddy points” and feeling like she “married my dad.”
She stated in a confessional: “Despite the fact that I’ve a extremely nice step-father, my organic father has a substance abuse drawback.
“When he is round he is not actually round as a result of he is form of absent mentally after which he is also absent bodily for like, lengthy intervals of time. So, that actually f**ked me up as a child.”
Bar received emotional admitting he has comparable points and grew up feeling like he was “not ok.”
Dr. Bryant requested: “Who instructed you that you just weren’t ok rising up?”
“I do not know,” he responded, revealing that his personal father was absent from his life as a result of a drug drawback.
Dr. Bryant noticed: “The factor about you is you are not even mad … you are simply, like, broken-hearted.”
COOLING OFF
Ashley revealed the unconventional nature of her relationship with Bar in an early episode of the present.
Co-stars had been fast to note a hoop on Ashley’s ring finger after the she arrived on set.
Cheyenne Floyd sat down along with her to resolve it, asking: “Let me have a look at your hand.
Ashley responds: “It is what the f**okay ever,” which appeared to confuse Cheyenne who requested, “You guys got here collectively. Are you not collectively?”
Ashley reveals: “We’re married,” which additional shocked Cheyenne.
She went on to elucidate: “We’re married however not collectively,” including that she “determined this.”
“I’ve lots of anger constructed up with Bar. I communicate one language, he speaks one other and we do not hear one another,” Ashley stated on the present, which flashed to an previous Teen Mother episode that includes a blowup between them.
Though Ashley claimed to be damaged up along with her husband, she stated in a confessional that she’s hopeful they’ll “get some instruments to have the ability to communicate to one another in the identical language.”
She recounted a few of Bar’s struggles, telling Cheyenne: “He had an ankle monitor and that put him on the straight and slender. He was on that for, like, a 12 months and a few change.
“Throughout that point, I noticed so many constructive issues that is once we received married. Now that it is off, it is simply complacent.”
Cheyenne suggested: “I really feel such as you guys have been by way of a lot collectively since you began so younger and I do not need you to make use of that as, like, a crutch or motive to say.
“That is nothing towards him.”